“Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it.”  

These words from Japanese author Haruki Murakami underscore a sobering truth – that all of our lives will one day pass.  

When losing a loved one, we often search for meaningful ways to honor their legacy. One great way to do this is by writing an impactful obituary. An obituary helps tell a person’s story. It provides a reminder of the importance of life, while helping us pay respect to a life well lived.  

In this digital age, the influence of obituaries has actually increased. Thanks to social media and websites, an obituary has the potential to reach more people than your local newspaper ever could. In fact, Legacy.com – a site which publishes online obituaries – has more than 20 million unique visitors a month.  

But because we don’t write obituaries very often, we’re often left with a lot of questions: How can I craft an obituary that’s meaningful? Where do I send it? Is it OK to write my own obit?  

Here’s what you need to know.

What information should I include in an obituary?

Every obituary should have four essential elements: 

Obituaries can provide a unique opportunity to express the personality of your loved one. In recent years, some obituaries have gained viral attention for showing a sense of humor. For example, a Maine man’s 2016 obituary said, “His regrets were few, but include eating a rotisserie hot dog from an unmemorable convenience store in the summer of 1986.” 

Meanwhile, others have been somber in mentioning personal struggles or challenges, such as a terminal illness or addiction. No matter what you write or how much detail you share, always do it with the best interests of your family in mind. After all, obituaries are about honoring a person’s legacy.

How do I send an obituary to my local newspaper?

When you’re finished writing the obituary, don’t forget to proofread to ensure everything is accurate. Then, you’ll need to submit it. Information on how to submit an obituary should be available on the website of your local newspaper. You may be able to send your obituary directly through the website, or via email with verification from a presiding funeral home. 

Keep in mind that some publications may charge a fee based on the length of your obituary. And there’s often an extra charge if you choose to publish a photo.

Should you write your own obituary?

Nobody knows your life story better than you. So, there is actually some benefit to crafting your own obit. 

It can provide an opportunity to look back on your life with some perspective or even set goals for the future. You may be surprised at how much you were able to accomplish or how complex your life was. And it can help you accept and appreciate how you lived your life.  

Writing your own obit can also help you connect with your relatives of future generations. It can help paint a more accurate picture of exactly who you were in your life. If you choose to draft your own obituary, be sure to share it with your loved ones so it can one day be used.

Looking after you

Like writing a meaningful obituary, life insurance is, by its very nature, deeply personal. Planning for the years ahead and securing the well-being of your family is more than a transaction: It's an act of love.

At Erie Insurance, we get that. It’s why we go about our own work with that same spirit of caring, dependability and commitment.  

To learn more about how you can help protect your family’s future, get in touch with your local ERIE agent .
 

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